1. “We always marry someone for the purpose of finishing our childhood.”
2. “Every therapeutic intervention is an act of social transformation.”
3. “Self-rejection is the most universal and east recognized problem in our lives. It is the source of all our difficulties in giving and receiving love.”
4. “Conflict is the alchemical soup that transforms raw emotion and instinct into pure gold.”
5. “We are born in relationship we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship.”
6. “Many divorced or widowed people do with their singleness what they should have done before they married for the first time: live alone, find their own rhythms, date a variety of people, go into therapy, develop new friends and interests, learn how to live with and care for themselves.”
7. “Nature does not care that you are comfortable, only that you evolve.”
8. “The depth of our love can be measured by our efforts. We demonstrate our love when we take that extra step.”
9. “Singleness would be recognized as a vital stage of the journey to maturation, a time to learn and about who you are, too learn responsibility and self- sufficiency, to identify our true desires, and to confront our inner strengths and demons.”
10. “As we know, human memory is notoriously unreliable when it comes to recalling facts. But when it comes to matters of the psyche, the way we feel about what happened can be as significant as the facts of the case .”
